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Reflecting on the quondam(prenominal) three months, I find that the most interesting topic was those with some(a) sort of relation to romantic relationships. I find these interesting because I am in a romantic relationship and it seems that a big bucks of previously unknown knowledge has been bestowed upon me about these relationships. Romantic relationships involve divers(a) aspects such as commitment, intimacy and passion according Julia wood, the author of interpersonal Communication. It is agreeable that a relationship is based on these ideals, but one and only(a) must inquire, is that all a relationship is based upon? In her definition, Wood seems to leave out 2 important aspect of a relationship, put and investment. nonpareil thing that Wood states in her writings is that commitment is a pivotal part of a relationship. Commitment is non a feeling, correcting legion(predicate) misconceptions of this thought. Commitment is a decision. It is the choice to rebriny within the relationship and it think two partners to a future. When two people decide to commit, conflict is not seen as a duration to end the relationship but as a resource to make the relationship stronger by working by dint of their conflicts. Commitment involves the choice to speak and listen effectively to ones partner. When two people commit, they take responsibility for continuing to invest in and care for their bond (Wood 267-268). With commitment comes challenge. Various items can affect two peoples choice to commit and their future within that commitment. One of these challenges includes distance. With distance two people are not able to shell out the small events of their day with their partner. Distance disables two people share their medium comings and goings that helps relationship stay woven together. Another challenge is unrealistic expectations for time together. Partners who are distant tend to expect each moment that they pass along together to be perfect. They bel ieve that conflict should be avoided and that they should be gleefully focused on their partner not realizing that conflict no count what type of relationship is inevitable. Another challenge with this type of relationship is unequal effort that the two partners invest to make and maintain their connection. One of the main reasons distant relationships do not work is because one person feels as if they are doing all of the work to keep the relationship solid and ongoing. (Wood, 407)I call these challenges because they can be overcome.